By Fc1 on Jun 24, 2009 at 12:01 PM

Hello? Are you ok? *concerned face*

By Fc1 on Jun 9, 2009 at 8:41 PM

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By Fc1 on Jun 3, 2009 at 8:15 AM

There is NO answer to that. And you will continue to ask yourself that question, human nature being what it is, but...until you accept that there are some things in this life that "it is what it is", then you won't be able to start healing. Maybe if I tell you what I did, that might help. Back in '98, I ended up back in touch with my junior high school sweetheart. Long story short, no matter how much he told me he loved me, his actions spoke louder than words. It took me OVER A YEAR but I finally realized I had to forgive MYSELF first and quit punishing myself for making a bad choice. After that, I found it easier to move on with my life. Yes, even to this day, it still hurts but only a shadow of what the pain once was. I am now with a very loving man WHOSE ACTIONS MATCH HIS WORDS. It took me 3 failed marriages and 2 other long-term failed relationships to get to this point but...I am here NOW. And one day, YOU will be a happy place again. Only....don't try to force it, j

By Fc1 on Jun 3, 2009 at 7:54 AM

No, it's not overly dramatic. Having your heart broken feels like just that: like someone has ripped your heart out of your chest. Emotional hurt has very real physical manifestations such as not eating/sleeping properly, actual pains in the chest and head from the tension, shakes, nausea. I've had a couple of clients {private care} in the past who actually had to be admitted to the psyche center for a short stay. I don't think you will be THAT bad, if you were, it would've already happened. Again, I encourage you to find some way to re-direct your energies. ICHC is a good way, maybe a theater group or a hiking club, something out-doors-y would be good too.

By Fc1 on Jun 3, 2009 at 6:42 AM

Sweetie, you can't MAKE yourself stop hurting. All you can do it try to refocus your energy. He's always going to be in your mind and heart BUT you can and will eventually get beyond him. Like Winnie said, just have faith in yourself. Oh! And don't do the rebound, just-get-out-and-start-dating-again thing. Trust me, THAT is a VERY VERY bad way to go {voice of experience}.

By Fc1 on Jun 2, 2009 at 2:43 PM

Nah, the site is definitely borked! I was looking back thru a few of my lols that I KNOW had many favoritings and some great comments and now......nada. :( I hope that, if and when the techies get everything "fixed" that the original comments, etc. will be attached. BTW, how are you doing today? I know you're going thru a hard time right now and that you're probably sick of hearing "time will heal" but... cliche tho it may be, it's true. You never really get "over" a hurt but you do get BEYOND it. Just take one day at a time...... And try to find something {even if it's just our lols} to smile about each day. It helps. Cheerz!