Messages between Rippler123 and Yurii
I'm doing ok, I finally got some things taken care of on my veterans benefits, but they still messed with it, so I have more fighting to do about it. Other than that, not much lately, not much money to do anything, so I spend a bit of time online, playing XBox, or reading and watching TV. What have you been up to lately? Are ya sure you want me to send you a friend request? Remember, I'm very warped, twisted, sometimes vulgar, and otherwise just plain weird... ;-)
Well, at least my Son still calls me "dad", but it hurts when I hear him call his adoption father "Dad", he says he wants to "fit in", and I can understand it, but it still hurts to hear him do so..... I understand how it is for you, and I don't blame you for how you feel. My health is "ok", I have some issues to deal with, but they will take some time and endurance to get better, just gets very tiring and wears me out sometimes.... *HUGS*
I understand that, my son didn't even bother to call me on my birthday, and that was even when he was still called to say "Hi" and "Love You" often, but if I forgot his, which is the 23rd of this month, he'd never let ME hear the end of it, and I'd NEVER forget his, it's very important to me and always will be, even if he forgets mine.......
I don't hear from my Son much if at all, unless he wants something. He's so 'happy' in his new foster/adoption home, being back in a public school, and having a "Dad" with a lot of money to spend on him, so I've 'fallen out of favor' and his attention span. He at least emailed me once or twice a week when he was first down there, now nothing....... *sigh* Last two times he called almost a month ago, all he did was ask me a question the first time, then say "Gotta go, bye!" when I said I loved him, the second time he called to tell me the possible visit for this month was cancelled, then he "had to go" and didn't want to talk about a future visit, he never even says "Love you" anymore, he even started calling his foster/adoption father "Dad" before he was officially placed with him..... I know he wants to 'fit in' down there, but he seems too eager to push me to the side. With my health, I just hope he doesn't miss out on the chance to see me again......
I'm doing ok, and yeah, there are a lot of times I miss my little Buddy, and if I'm especially lonely then I'll get really sad. But I'm handling things alright today. Thanx for being a friend, I appreciate it! I was on Facebook the other day, and I was going to try and find Manchester United's official fan page so I could join it, and I did a search for MU, and there were over 500 results!! I searched through just the first 50 results, and there were over 10 "official club" pages, I gave up trying to pick the "correct" one!
Thanks for the sentiment, luv, I appreciate it, somehow I'll get my finances straightened out somehow. Yep, I live in Oregon in the US! And don't worry about those duffers, rough times are like a bad batch of Haggis, "This too shall 'pass'!!" Do ya happen to know who won the match between Tottenham and Manchester City? It was on TV today, but I fell asleep before the end of the match! (Cor!)
ANYTHING in life that is truly good & rewarding is hard to get to, but once you're there, it is truly wort it. I'm doing ok, just kind of getting by, mainly just volunteering here and there, making LOLs, and trying to sell my hobby collections to pay some bills, and take part in my Middle Ages re-enactment group (SCA).
No, nothing interesting. My aunt had a stroke the other night and she is in the hospital. My uncle had one about 6-8 months ago, and he's been doing ok, but my aunt isn't, she can hardly open her eyes and can barely talk, more like just mumbling a bit. Last night the doctors said that she probably won't be leaving the hospital. I really, really hope they're wrong.
