That was very strange, messaging at the same time and yep I was missing you too. I deleted him because I don't like such childish mess on my dashboard. I hope you don't mind me deleting him, i know he is one of your friends. Many hugs, Millie
((Deb)) You are MOST welcome! I'm sorry you are feeling badly. It was a rude awakening for me too when I first registered an account here, made friends and explored more & found out not everyone here is all that nice, and some people here don't have anything to do with animals or funny stuff. Some people like to have a public audience to troll, stalk, pick on people and/or spout very obscene, harsh, unkind, nasty or unseemly things. Some folks just 'role play' back & forth on here, which is fine, I suppose, but I don't 'get it'. This doesn't seem like the proper venue for role playing, but it works for them, so to each his or her own. Try not to let it get you down too much though, because, for the most part, people on here are wonderful and kind and caring and smart and most of all FUNNY! ((bighugzbak))
i absolutely refuse to fave elizabuff's sorry and apologetic "retirement". she is a beautiful soul who brightens my days. she has insight. her life experiences show me things i myself have never had. her granddaughter helps me value mine - so far my first and only - so much more when i see through buffs eyes. and you. i friended you for many of the same qualities. inspiration and light. wish i had words to thank you for being a presence in my life, however fleetingly, with lols you make and things you like. love, jd
It is a shame they had to catch you up in the middle of their hate and lies about me. They say they saved the comment but didn't bother to save the LOL they claim exists, but never did. I can see now they will continue until we are defriended so its best if I make the choice for you. Please tell Beth I harbor no ill will toward her but I live in the deep south and stuff like that is not well thought if here as racism still runs deep here on both sides of the street. I shall miss chatting with you but this is the only way hate mongers like daisy can be quelled.
Oh, no. It takes something big for me to un-friend someone. I cannot stand for my friends, or anyone, to be attacked like that. It just fries my bacon! I was so apprehensive when I saw that he was back, but I hoped things would be different. Now I can't find the LOL he made about me even though I looked through all his Stuff. I hope my reputation here can stand his accusations, but if it can't, I won't cry over it. The sad part is we were all willing to be his friend until he falsely accused alisaorrdaisy. She was new here and anything but "political"! It is so bizarre. We're still buds, don't fret over that. Hugs, Linda (wally01)
P.S sweetie, I just read Horshooer's message to you about me and others and it is an utter LIE. This is quote from him of the message: "I did delete someone for sending too much political stuff cross my dashboard and I told them why before I did so." THAT IS A COMPLETE LIE. I never had a chance to send ANYTHING across his dash, let alone anything political or backstabbing, as he called it. He accepted my friend request, I sent him a thank you, and he immediately sent me a nasty message and deleted me. He never even had a chance to see any of my stuff (which by the way is not political or backstabbing in any way). And he DID make a NASTY LOL about wally01 but no one ( I know of) kept it, of course because it was MEAN.
Hi, I hate to be the bearer of ill news but Buff needs some time to get over all of this. I did send her your apologies and this was her response: By elizabuff on Aug 8, 2012 at 11:32 PM You have a good heart, dear alisaordaisy...but venus had a lot to do with feeding this fire. I understand she is sorry, but I'm just not ready to go through that again. She fanned the fire that horseshooer started. I need to avoid venus for a bit. I'll get over it in time, I'm sure.
Hi. Go back through his "Stuff" and see if he still has the LOL he made. That's the one I was speaking of. I did not say anything bad about him, other than I did not like for him to falsely accuse someone just as he did elizabuff. He didn't look to see who made the LOL. He thought it was horrible that anyone would favorite it! It's what he did before so he didn't learn anything from it. I don't make anything up, and I don't lie. I knew this would happen again, and it did. You were a voice of calm trying to tell him where he went wrong, but it didn't work. It can't work with someone who won't listen or admit a mistake. I wish that I had said something sooner, but I let it go. He makes good LOLs, but he is sorely lacking in the other niceties of ICHC. Maybe, he can't help it. I just know that I don't need it. It will all settle down until someone does what he doesn't like again! I'll see if I can find the LOL he made. Obviously, I didn't favorite it. I didn't want to encourage him. Try to have a restful night, Linda (wally01)
Hai honey, you are just another nameless victim of Horshooer, as far as I can see, as I have been trying to keep up with all the messages since the drama unfolded. You should stay too, mai frend. You are not disruptive or mean (in anything I witnessed anyway), you just were trying to figure things out and smooth ruffled feathers, I know you meant well. Hugs~A